The distinguishing feature of the ultimate reality or God is that there are no sides.
Not only does God not take sides, He does not recognize our sides at all.
To God there is no us and them.
All are equal.
All are equally loved.
So there is no profit in trying to win.
Trying to win our side against another side.
We are encouraged to forgive.
To forgive others as God has forgiven us.
Then there are no sides.
There are only imperfect human beings.
Human beings make mistakes.
Our mistakes are forgiven.
Forgive your enemies their mistakes.
And you will be like God.