Because God does not punish bad behavior does not mean He condones it.
Murder, violence, stealing, lies, adultery, blasphemy, greed, oppression.....
God does not condone these things.
Most of them have causes, and those causes are fears.
So God does not judge them.
Non-violence, forgiveness, honesty, respect, charity, generosity.....
God delights in these things.
But most of all God delights in Love.