The problem is that people's image of God is wrong.
The idea that God is mighty and powerful gives birth to the notion that God wins by asserting might and power.
This is incorrect.
God enlightens us.
When we see the truths which God asserts we change our minds and we change our behavior.
God is not a punisher of men and women.
Neither does He use force or violence.
God is not an enforcer of moral rules.
God is our lover.
He forgives and encourages us.
He sees good in us.
Until we change this false image of God things will not change.